Ok I will admit to being just a little curious, like anybody, I guess, you get to thinking, and what would it be like to try something new? After you’ve been having sex for 20 odd years it can be difficult to make it different.

My husband had asked me about swinging even before we were married, back then I found the whole idea appalling, but as you get older you change your mind about many things. And after a kind of close encounter with a couple of friends of ours, I agreed, on the condition that there could be no possibility of anyone finding out.

At that time were planning annual holidays, and my husband suggested there may be a good place to have a holiday and to try swinging, so the booked two weeks in Thailand. I could see as soon as we got there, and my husband was thrilled with all the young looking beautiful Thai women around.

On the third night, we went to a club that my husband had found on the Internet and must I must say, despite my worries I was very excited at the prospect of going such a place, when we went in to the club is seemed like any other nightspot, lots of people drinking and dancing, mostly foreign men with Thai girls.

After an hour we were approached by an Australian guy who asked us to sit with him and his Thai girlfriend.  He was very handsome in that classic Aussie way and I could see that my husband was nearly drooling over his beautiful girlfriend.

They invited us back to their hotel, and with an incredible mixture of nervousness and excitement, I agreed. We had a couple drinks from the minibar, my husband was pretty drunk by now, and had his arm around the Thai girl, and I was watching them as they began to kiss.

My new Aussie partner took that as his cue and before I knew it I was having wild sex on one bed, my husband and the Thai girl doing the same in the other bed,  It didn’t take a moment for me to get over my nerves, and really enjoy myself.

We met up several more times during the holiday, sometimes, just for a meal other times for some more fun, but that was definitely the most exciting holiday I ever had.